There came a time that you became so desperate to find a girlfriend. Suddenly she came and you thought your life was already filled up. You started to become inspired feeling that you are so in love with her. Before you use to see it on the movies and now you feel like your life is a movie now.
A few days later you noticed that she change her attitude from sweet to bitter. She started to become possessive, she calls you all the time, you even have to ask permission to her the way you asked permission to your mom, she does not allow you to drink beer, and worst is that she is ruining your diet program because she is scared for you to look good and to be noticed by lots of people. Isn't this disgusting? Well, I'm sure it is. So what do you need to do in case this happens? Here are my tips:
1. They nag because they care about you so much. NO! Why no? Because love is giving others the freedom to do whatever they want!! She does not trust you.
2. Remember that you are in control of your life. If you tolerate those things, it means that she is in control of you.
3. Don't get mad her. Just show her a little bit that you are pissed with what she's doing. If she threatens to leave you, don't be afraid of it. There are many fishes in the sea and you don't want to be bitten by a shark.
4. Don't be fooled by her looks. No matter how good looking she is, she is still replaceable.
5. And next time you start a relationship, make sure you start it right. Probably the reason, why she became like that is because you started it.
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